Unleash The Dominatrix Within
7 Jul
In my everyday life I am dominant, I’m dominant in my relationships, I’m dominant in my friendships and I was dominant in the workplace (until I began working from home). I therefore stands to reason that, by proxy, I am also dominant in the bedroom, not in a fetish kind of way…I just seem to take the lead (most of the time)! It’s not that I mind being submissive, in fact I absolutely love it, but when I am submissive it’s a concious thing (at least at first)! I do love being the submissive when it comes to a bit of bondage or spanking and I indulge on a regular basis…but when we ‘just have sex’, it’s fair to say that he is marching to my tune.
Because of my natural dominance in the bedroom, it was only recently that I actually considered becoming actively dominant in the bedroom…I decided to try out the dominatrix act, becoming the alpha-bitch in a big way! I’m not talking about forcing my man to wear a collar and making him lick the toilet bowl, I’m talking about fetish inspired dominancee play during which I will give my man commands which he must perform, although in this instance the focus is unequivocaly on sexual satisfaction not some sort of deranged power trip! For me fetish must in some way be about sex, the greater the degree to which sexual gratification features the better…which is precisely why I have no interest in making my lover polish my louboutins with his tongue! (more…)







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